Being somewhat introvert I wonder what women are thinking a lot. But I guess that is the case with most men. Not that it really matters since what they are thinking will not change how some men approach them. Now I have heard many say that they do not like the cat call and I can understand that.
But here is what I do not understand I probably will never understand. As I said I am an introvert by nature, so in most cases I will not start a conversation with a women in public except to be polite. And that would only be to say hello, good morning or some other neutral greeting. And in most cases it is only when she has spoken to me. Now if you ignore my greeting that usually tells me to blow off and I do. What I have notice and this has been not just once but several times, is that I have greeted you and you blow me off , than someone else come up and they start a conversation with me. I look up and you are watching every word coming out our mouths. Some times to the point that we move away from you to keep the conversation to ourselves. In most cases we are only having a general conversation but even that can feel uncomfortable when someone is looking at you. My problem is that this seems to be a constant (not just one woman but several). I take public transit so this happens a lot. I understand not wanting to speak, even that you might think I am hitting on by saying hello. But for me that took a lot to just to say hello so if you do not respond I am not going to put myself out there pass that. So I am not going to ask you what’s on your mind. Just if you cannot be polite enough to return my greeting , Please stay out my mouth. It is rude and you are starting to give me a complex. If you feel I am hitting on you am not.
I have gotten use to being an introvert, and most of the time I understand that I will be alone most the time. And I am ok with that. But what I am not ok with is the women’s ego that thinks that every man want to hit on them. The whole act of being a human being is lost to them. But I must be fair there are men like this also. But that does not matter to me. My point is that every time someone speaks to me I am not thinking why are you hitting on me.
So if I greet you on the street and say hello please do not think I am hitting on you.
But If I ever got the nerve to say “hey fine momma how you doing today. Than run something wrong with me.
Otherwise please stay out my mouth.